Hello fellow bloggers.
Exiled for almost 15 days, I feel like I have been missing on a lot. However, its always good to step out of the virtual world and meet real people and sharpen our communication skills in real time and real space. I shiver sometimes when I think of the world 30 years from now. How many of us would actually be taking real time trips to places around the world? Anyways, until then, lets enjoy the real world feeling. Here's some food for thought at my blog party.
I was recently introduced to the the ten intentions as described by Elaine Stirling in her book,
The Corporate Storyteller.Thinking aout it, communications in the corporate world do stem off from intentions. We are either upset about a situation and want to express ourselves, or inform people around us about something new. Sometimes, we want to recognize the goodness or success of others and encourage. There are times, when the team is in low spirits and we need to inspire. Well, it would be easier to communicate, oral or written, if we identified the underlying intentions first.
The first and foremost intention is:
to inform(1). Think of a new born baby crying- trying to inform of birth pains or hunger. As we grow, our need to inform the world around us increases as well and we start writing books, conduct seminars, run a show, so on and so forth. In the corporate sector, communication is primarily used for disseminating information. We want to inform continuously- our products or services, how we are better than others, our vision and mission, the list goes on.
As we grow, we learn to express our curiosity. We learn
to inquire(2); to seek information. Informing and inquiring is what makes a conversation going. It strengthens relationships and creates reason for continued interaction. These two intentions once manifested as actions, form the basis of the rest of our intentions.
Some other intentions are to promote or persuade or even propose. These seem to be similar in nature when we are writing an ad script, no? however, they are not exactly the same.
Well,
promoting(3) is all about moving forward; getting the audience to move forward to a new level of understanding vis-a-vis our products or services or even ideas.
Persuading(4) is a step further . Its almost urging your audience to agree with you so that you can reach your goal.
Proposing(5) is to use our
persuasiveness in order to promote our goals. Each of these three intentions will lead to diverse actions.
To refuse(6) is the intention to respond negatively to a request or inquiry. We do it all the time in our personal or professional world.
To complain(7) is to express our discontent or to lament. Sometimes, its just a healthy release of emotions but at other times, its a major reason behind serious communications. Customers complaining about overcharges, compliant officers complaining about non-compliance, so on and so forth.
At times, we communicate with the intention
to confront(8). We have refused or complained and now, its time to confront; to bring the issue on to the table and accomplish a tangible goal. Often, this is an important reason to communicate and requires careful planning and understanding of the issue at hand.
While all the above-mentioned reasons are everyday reasons for communications, there are two more which form the basis for any leadership communications framework:
to encourage (9) and
to inspire (10).To encourage is to lend some courage to your audience for an intended action. A teacher encourages the child to learn better, a manager encourages her or his team to move further to accomplish the goal. It involves building up further on the existing qualities in your audience.
To inspire is to infuse with a higher spirit of accomplishing. It helps the audience to recognize the highest in human potential.Obama's speeches in 2008 were all about encouragement and inspiration just like Gandhi's were in 1940s.
Do share with me what you think of these ten intentions.
Enjoy the week ahead until we meet in blogland again!
Ciao.